Making a positive change on life's journey

Sandra Haynes

Grief and Loss Counsellor

Port Stephens, Medowie & Online in  Australia

Professional support for loss, bereavement and significant life changes...

One thing we know for sure is that change is an inevitable part of life. Some changes will be exciting, planned, and anticipated. Some are natural transitions that allow us to grow. Others turn our life upside down and alter who we are forever.   

Change is often accompanied grief and a period of intense unsettlement as we try to adjust to what’s been lost. This grief can affect us emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually. While we have a remarkable capacity to adjust, and grief is a natural and normal process, it can sometimes place immense demands on our coping resources.   

Grief is also deeply personal, and because no two people will experience it in the same way, it can be hard to talk to friends or family who may not fully understand what you’re going through. This is why counselling can be such a valuable resource.   

When we take a little time out for ourselves, we make space to process our experience by talking to someone who will understand, listen and be objective, who can help us develop coping strategies if needed, and gain a fresh perspective on how we’re seeing things right now.  

“In any given moment, we have two options: to step forward into growth or to step back into safety.”  
Abraham Maslow

About Me

Hi, my name is Sandra, and I’m a clinically registered counsellor with fifteen years’ experience in both private practice and not-for-profit organisations.  I offer specialised online counselling support in Australia and face-to-face sessions in Port Stephens, Medowie, and Soldiers Point for:  
Bereavement and grief counselling:  following the death of a loved one or family member, or the unresolved grief that has been carried for a long time
Relationship and separation support: helping you emotionally navigate a relationship breakdown and the major life changes that follow.
Pet loss counselling: honouring and processing the deep grief of losing a beloved animal.
Stress, anxiety and depression: creating a supportive space and help for strengthening emotional resilience
Lifestyle transitions and change: helping you navigate the uncertainty of deciding to change something, as well as coping with the loss of a home or a job.

How I Can Help You

Grief, Loss and Post-Bereavement Counselling

We heal at the depth we were wounded; honour the time your heart needs to rebuild its chambers.
Etheric Echoes

Grief affects every part of us - emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually.  While we have a remarkable capacity to adjust to change, grief can sometimes place immense demands on our coping resources, especially after a significant loss.  Grief is also deeply personal, and no two people will experience it in the same way, so sometimes it’s hard to talk to others who may not fully understand what grief can be like and what you’re personally going through. This is where counselling can help. The process of grief counselling isn’t about forgetting the past and what you’ve lost, or ‘fixing’ your grief.  It’s about gradually realising that a life can be lived where grief and happiness can exist side by side, and together, we can find ways to make small, intentional shifts that will help you move forward at your own pace. Depending on your own unique situation, you may wish to meet up with me for one or two sessions or come and see me more regularly if it will be helpful to you.

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Personal Growth Coaching Sessions

Knowing Yourself is the Beginning of All Wisdom.
Aristotle

Coaching is different to counselling in that it is more outward looking and focused on taking some action to doing something different.  It can provide practical tools and strategies tailored around your own unique situation to change something that will make life better.   As coach Mary Lee Robinson once said, ‘counselling helps you get on your feet; coaching helps your feet to begin moving forward!’     My personal growth coaching sessions will help to facilitate the right kind of conversation to provide clarity around what’s important to you, what might be missing in your life that you long for, and what thoughts and beliefs might be keeping you stuck.  Depending on your needs, you are invited to commit to four to six coaching sessions, to give you the time to lay some groundwork toward change.  We will discuss this during our first contact call together.  Let me help support you to stay focused on what you want to change.

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